A.
LIVE-ABLES
Let us-
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Smile
more
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Be kind
to others
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Apologise for our shortcomings and mistakes
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Enjoy
what we are doing
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Laugh at
ourselves
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Be
honest and truthful
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Be
patient when dealing with others
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Never
criticize others for the sake of criticizing
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Listen
more and talk less
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Always
respect other's point of view
Let us not -
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Frown on
others
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Belittle
others or demean them
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Blame
others for everything that goes amiss in our lives
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Crib for
our state of life
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Laugh at
others
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Be
dishonest in our dealings with others
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Blow our
own trumpet
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Interrupt others when they talk to us
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Forget to show our love to our near and
dear ones.
B. THE SECRET POWER OF
VITALITY
Vital people exude spirit,
gusto and youth. Vital people wake us up. We are attracted to them like
moths to a light. We feel better, happier and more hopeful, just being
around them. We describe them as positive, energetic, comfortable with
themselves, centered, curious, uplifting, optimistic and resilient. They
describe themselves, as normal and happy, and wonder why other people are
not having as much fun.
Vital people seem to defy
age. Think about the “Vital” people you know. They are happy, playful and
youthful. They are physically healthy and almost always radiant. Their
lives are filled with great friends and family members on whom they can
rely. We all want to bottle whatever it is these vital people have.
This quality of vitality
is not elusive. You may think of vital people as born lucky but really
their magnetic qualities are not inherited. They simply have a positive
attitude and they can take care of themselves. And once you learn to
develop vitality in you, a healthy weight, a longer life, a sharper mind
and a happier disposition can naturally follow. Here’s how to get what you
want:-
Developing a vital
personality and approach to life is not achieved overnight. It takes time
to grow into and strengthen your vitality, just as it takes regular
exercises to keep your body strong. It is not easy to change, but it
is possible. It’s the desire to better ourselves that make us human and
makes life valuable. Remember you can get the vitality you want. All you
have to do is dine well, stay fit, keep laughing and enjoy life, and share
it with people. That is not too hard, it is?
Let’s do something about
that attitude: Our thoughts shape our bodies literally. Drag your
thoughts away from your trouble by the ears, by the heels or any other
way. It is the healthiest thing you could do to yourself. The other things
you could do is:
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Don’t fret about the
future. Learn to live in the present.
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Don’t be afraid to make
mistakes. They are only signs that you are growing a little.
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Be resourceful. If you
cannot get what you want one way, try another route.
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Do what you love and
love what you do. Do something because you love it, not because you
expect fame or future from doing it.
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When you are feeling
down in the dumps, do something for someone else, it helps you forget
your woes.
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Take responsibility.
Don’t blame others for whatever happens in you life.
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Be the kind of person
you would love to have as a friend.
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Love others because you
want to, not because you expect anything from them.
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Don’t let pain get you
down. If something hurts, it’s going to hurt whether you’re lying in bed
or climbing a mountain.
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Don’t bear grudges
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You are old when you
feel sorry for yourself
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You may not be perfect,
but remember YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH